So much for being like Jesus...

I do not consider myself a Christian. In fact, I do not associate myself with any organized religion or even believe in God. But I do believe that there are good things that are taught in religion. Being kind and loving everyone and honoring your parents are things that I believe are wonderful things to follow and I try to do this in my life as often as possible.

Now there are some people in my life--who I love dearly--who are devoted to a life of following Christ and yet I struggle to find truly Christ-like attributes in their attitudes and behaviors. These people hurt me more than I can say. Just because I do not attend church, or my mom's fiancee drinks, or we swear does not mean that we are terrible people or that our moral compass is "skewed." We are just people. We are human beings who are trying our hardest to live a good and fulfilling life. Just because the life we are choosing is not the same as the life you are choosing does not mean it is wrong or that we deserve to be judged or ridiculed. 

I wish I could say I am sorry if this offends anyone, but I am not. People need to realize that if they truly want to follow Christ and be a "good Christian" then they need to humble themselves, open their minds and hearts to everyone, and most of all love their family unconditionally. Your family is all you have in this world that will never leave, don't let it get away because of pride and self-serving feelings of superiority. From my understanding Jesus spent his time with the sinners and the harlots and showed them love. So why can't you?